WHAT I WISH ALL MOMS KNEW

by lisa@lisacanning.ca | May 14, 2018 | Mom Coaching

It's Mother's Day, and I have been reflecting a lot on my journey as a mom. Oh my word, it has been a journey full of ups, downs, pivots, spins. There are so many things that I know now, after 9 years of experience, and almost 7 babies later, that I wish every mom knew. Click below to watch the video, or read on below:

I wish all moms knew that children are not a burden. There are things about motherhood and raising kids that are inconvenient, for sure. The amount of pee and poop I have cleaned from all kinds of surfaces, let me tell you. But these things, these things that might not be pleasant, might require us to give and give of ourselves make us better people. Children are not an inconvenience.

I wish all moms knew we could beat to our own drums. It is so OK if you want to do life differently than your mom, your sister, your best friend, your work colleague, that girl on instagram, that's alright. You want to know why? Because your life is yours. It's YOUR LIFE!!!

I wish every mom knew that if you want to quit your job and be with your kids more full time YOU SHOULD DO IT. Don't just go back to work because a bunch of people are telling you you should. Don't go back because you are afraid that you won't have a job if you take some time off to be at home- heck, you are probably GOSH DARN TALENTED and can get a job again regardless of how much time you invest in being home.

I wish all moms knew that making decisions from a place of fear is usually not the best approach. It might provide a solution for your family, but it probably isn't the best solution for your family.

I wish all moms knew that success as a mom is so possible, but that success just might look different than how you originally pictured it.

I wish all moms knew that it is a far better strategy to measure success by looking inward, rather than looking sideways and comparing yourself to others.

I wish all moms knew that becoming a mom does not mean you sacrifice your dreams. You can be a great mom and follow your passions. YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO SQUASH ALL YOUR DREAMS AND TELL THEM TO BE QUIET JUST BECAUSE YOU BECAME A MOM. I believe that ALL MOMS CAN DESIGN THEIR LIVES SO THEY CAN PURSUE THEIR PASSIONS AND GOALS BUT NOT AT THE EXPENSE OF THEIR FAMILIES. It is possible.

I wish all moms knew that your life is yours, and yours alone to live. Which means that sometimes when people give you advice, you need to nod and smile, but not take that advice.

I wish all moms knew that motherhood does not have to be lonely. You're not in it alone. If you are feeling sad, insecure, or no one is experiencing what you are experiencing, that is a lie. Talk about it, ask for support. We are not meant to do this alone.

I wish all moms knew that motherhood is hard sometimes, but it does not have to be hard ALL THE TIME. We can design our lives so that our schedules include time for friends, time for self care, time for hobbies- it does not need to be hard all the time.

I wish all moms knew that kids will fail- and that is ok. Let them fail.

I wish all moms knew that when kids don't excel the way you pictured it, THAT IS OK. IT IS NOT A REFLECTION OF YOU AND YOUR ABILITY TO PARENT. It is simply a reality that we all have different gifts and talents. AND THAT IS A-OK.

I wish all oms knew that you don't have to enroll your child in multiple activities for them to become a great person. If they have an interest, foster it. But it should not be at the expense of your sanity, or your child's sanity.

I wish all moms knew that motherhood is not a competition. Who cares whose kid is the smartest, whose house is the nicest, who can bake the best cake. WE DON'T HAVE TO DO IT ALL. THERE IS ROOM FOR EVERYONE TO EXCEL.

I wish all moms knew what a joyful noise the sound of small children can be.

I wish all moms knew that motherhood can be fun! You get to revisit your own childhood in so many ways, you get to play, your get to become a kid again. It can be so much fun.

I wish all moms knew that the toddler phase is kind of like a choose your own adventure book- and they choose the adventure, you don't, by the way!

I wish all moms knew that giving your child a sibling is an incredible gift. It might seem like there is no way you can give anymore of yourself, but the gift of a sibling IS A GIFT TO EVERYONE.

I wish all moms knew that sometimes motherhood can make you feel like YOU ARE LOSING YOUR MIND. But THAT YOU ALWAYS GET IT BACK, I PROMISE.

Happy Mother's Day to all my fellow mamas who are working hard, sacrificing lots and following their dreams at the same time.

Cheers to designing your beautiful life.

HOW TO SIMPLIFY HOME AND AUTO INSURANCE

by lisa@lisacanning.ca | Nov 28, 2017 | Lifestyle Design

When I was a child, I dreamed of what my life would look like as a grown up. I dreamed up what kind of a house I would have (a red brick house with a white picket fence), the kind of car I would drive (my dream car when I was 12 was a pink convertible), and of course what my husband and kids would look like (I still pinch myself sometimes when I realize that I have 6 amazing kids!!!)

While my car isn’t pink, my adult reality has far surpassed my dreams:

But of course, what I never realized as a child was the amount of work that goes into taking care of a house or a car in your adulthood. From regular maintenance, to unexpected damages, to legal papers and getting home and auto insurance, the actual process of owning a home and a car can sometimes feel a lot less dream like.

As a busy working mom, I am always looking for ways to streamline my life, and save time and energy. So today, I am teaming up with the Canadian home and auto insurance company Esurance, to help make this important aspect of owning a home and a car a little less stressful.

While the “grown-up” realities of owning a home and a car aren’t always easy, getting the best home and auto insurance for your family shouldn’t be hard. Here are a few ways that Esurance makes the process of getting the right policy for your family an easy one.

1. It’s fast and efficient

With Esurance, you can get a car and home quote online quick and easy. There’s no waiting on hold for a phone representative. You simply fill out your information on their website, and are directed in a comprehensive manner the best options for you. Inputting your responses online means that you can do this virtually anywhere- on your phone, in line at the grocery store, or on your laptop while holding your baby. Sometimes my life can get really hectic- and filling out a form at a time that works best for me is just so convenient.

2. It’s competitive

Esurance is changing insurance for the better, leveraging technology to reduce some of the costs that encumber traditional insurance companies. With an award-winning website and innovative tools, tech-savvy consumers can save money with Esurance through a myriad of incentive discounts for those who qualify- check out 10 ways you can save on home insurance here. I also appreciate that the website does a really great job at explaining EVERYTHING in detail, in regular language, that I can understand. Being able to understand all of the options available to me helps me with feeling less overwhelmed, and takes away the stress of knowing where my money is going.

3. It’s reliable

As a part of the Allstate family, Esurance is a reliable choice for insurance, offering anytime, anywhere service just a click, call, or tap away. When you are dealing with things as serious and unnerving such as the theft of a car, or unexpected damage to your home, it’s comforting to know that there is is someone there for you who is going to have your back. So regardless if you’re a first-time homeowner, or a sawdust seasoned home owning pro, Esurance offers support and advice for all.

As an interior design professional, I get to help my clients realize a lot of dreams. From beautiful furnishings, to personalized art, I love helping families thrive at home, and design a life they truly love. And while I don’t like to dwell on some of the unfortunate things that are a reality of home and auto ownership, it is important to be prepared, and feel empowered in making decisions that will help your family thrive.

For more information on how Esurance can help your family thrive, visit www.esurance.ca

A special thanks to Esurance for partnering with me on this blog post. I do a lot of research to ensure that any brand I partner with is going to help your family thrive- so please know opinions are my own.