I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I AM DOING

I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I AM DOING

If you have been following along, you know we are setting up shop at our new home in sunny SW Florida! I has been a wild experience, and I have decided to document it all here on the blog by participating in Calling It Home’s One Room Challenge! Read last week’s post right here. 

I have a confession to make: I have no idea what I am doing.

Backstory: I have been practicing interior design for the last 12 years, recently making a switch to focus on my book, The Possibility Mom, and my online courses and coaching. I am normally super confident when it comes to decor choices, but for some reason, I am stumped this time for what to do in my living room!

Here’s what’s going on in my head:

Some days, I am thinking I go all white and blue and bright and coastal, like this space by Sita Montgomery Interiors, 

And then other days, I want my living room to feel edgy, earthy and full of contrast like this space by Studio M cGee.

And then sometimes I want to go totally rogue and do something totally wild like this wall mural by anewall. 

This is why I love The One Room Challenge- I am forced to make decisions!!!! Come back next week where I will finalize my palette at the very least.

Be sure to check out the Featured 20 designers, as well as all the guest designers right here!!!!

WE ARE MOVING TO FLORIDA!!!

WE ARE MOVING TO FLORIDA!!!

Well hello there- as I type this, we are literally 2 days out from moving our family 7 (soon-to-be-8!) kids from our home in Toronto Canada, to our new home in sunny South West Florida.

If you have been following me for a while, (and a big welcome to those of you who are new!) you know we lovingly renovated our home in North York. Let’s take a fun trip down memory lane, shall we?

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This was my old living room- I LOVED this wallpaper, the contrast, this sofa- so many memories in our first family living room!

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I renovated my home gym as part of the Fall 2015 One Room Challenge.

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We went moody on our master bedroom.

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And renovated my laundry room as part of the Spring 2015 One Room Challenge!

And then we sold our home and moved to what I affectionately call my #CanningCabin:

With a dreamy master bedroom:

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And the best playroom ever:

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AND NOW….. WE ARE ON ANOTHER AMAZING ADVENTURE:

WE ARE MOVING TO FLORIDA! In 2 days!!!!! And so I am jumping into Calling It Home’s One Room Challenge yet again to decorate my main floor. Since we aren’t down there yet, I don’t have decent before photos (come back next week) but press play below to see an emotional first look at my home. So excited to be joining as a guest participant this time around!

Be sure to check out the Featured 20 designers, as well as all the guest designers right here!!!! I will be back next Thursday with some before photos of the space, and my vision for what I want our new life in Florida to look like!!!!!!! Excited to journey together on this one : )

HOW TO QUIT MOM GUILT FOR GOOD THIS FALL

HOW TO QUIT MOM GUILT FOR GOOD THIS FALL

The fall season means all kinds of new habits for moms and kids alike – and if you are already feeling like you need a little help not constantly feeling overwhelmed and burdened by mom guilt, here are my favourite tips and products to get you through this season of change.

1. DON’T MAKE LIFE HARDER THAN IT NEEDS TO BE

Between dance lessons and homework assignments, and conference calls and parent- teacher meetings, a mom cannot afford to spend time and energy in areas that are not strategic. Sometimes, I think we make life harder than it needs to be – and this can contribute to feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and mom guilt in a huge way.

 

Take grocery shopping for example. I used to do it with a bunch of small kids in tow, and the experience would leave me frazzled and exhausted, and often without the thing I came to get from the store in the first place because I was busy being a hostage negotiator!!!

 

 

Instead, consider using a service like the PC Insiders Subscription. For $99 a year, you get free PC Express grocery pick up, you earn 200 PC Optimum points for every dollar spent on PC Organics products, PC Black Label Collection products and Joe Fresh merchandise. Plus, you save SO MUCH TIME. You place your grocery order online from the comfort of your own home (I use a recurring shopping list every single week), you select your desired time for pick up, you pull up your vehicle, and a friendly staff member delivers your groceries to your car.

 

What used to take me an hour and a half was significantly cut down to less than half an hour from start to finish. Services like this allow you to save time strategically, freeing you up to enjoy time with your family.

 

 

2. MAKE TIME FOR DATE NIGHT EVEN IF YOU HAVE NO CHILD CARE

When you think about it, so much time is spent in a car as a mom. I personally spend about an hour daily for school drop off and pick up, between one to two or more hours in the car for errands and appointments depending on the day, and then another hour driving kids to activities and play dates when we have them scheduled. That’s a lot!

 

So instead of just a place where we act as chauffeurs for our kids, what if the car could be a place for connection for all members of the family – even for something like a weekly date night?

 

Here’s how you do it: pack the kids in the car in their pyjamas, drive around until they fall asleep, grab your favourite drink, park somewhere scenic, and enjoy a movie or just enjoy music and each other’s company.

 

We recently took the Hyundai Palisade out for a test drive, and the bells and whistles on this SUV really allowed me to create a luxury date experience. Heated seats, heated steering wheel, Android Auto™ & Apple CarPlay™, USB outlets in every row- even an in- vehicle intercom with Kid’s “Quiet Zone” to silence whatever we are listening to in the front row, so we don’t disturb our sleeping baby in the back – it’s the kind of vehicle that keeps up with the demands of a modern family.

 

Connection can happen anywhere we are intentional about it happening- even in the car.

 

3. HELP KEEP YOUR KIDS GERM-FREE WHILE THEY ARE AT SCHOOL

 

The back-to-school his season is TOUGH, as a new school year means new germy situations. Your children also may be settling into a new routine and being introduced to new environments (like a new school). They also won’t have you with them
during the day to remind them to do things like wash their hands before and after lunch and recess!

 

To help my kids avoid germs and keep their hands clean during school hours, I include travel pouches of Wet Ones antibacterial hand wipes in their backpacks and lunch boxes every day. These Wet Ones wipes are hypoallergenic and gentle on skin, and are an easy way to ensure my kids keep harmful germs away when soap and water aren’t easily accessible – and let’s face it, many kids forget to get up, find a sink, and wash their hands.

 

The prompt of seeing a wipe in their lunchbox is a great way to keep your kiddos’ hands clean, and to help ease your mind, knowing that you have given them a line of defence against harmful germs.

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4. ACKNOWLEDGE THAT ASKING FOR HELP IS NOT A SIGN OF WEAKNESS

 

I do not know where in modern motherhood it became a sign of success to do everything alone- but this mindset needs to stop!. We need to be ok with asking for help, and be ok receiving it! Whether your help comes from your mom, a hired service to clean your home, a teenager in the neighbourhood who watches your kids, or a mom you swap babysitting with so you can both get a break during the week, creating a culture where moms help each other succeed is something that is very important to me, and desperately needed today.

 

Thanks so much to the brands mentioned for partnering with me on this post. I only work with brands that I personally use myself and can personally attest to their value! 
WHY CUSTOM WINDOW COVERINGS ARE SO WORTH IT

WHY CUSTOM WINDOW COVERINGS ARE SO WORTH IT

If you’ve been following me for a while, you know that I am a little obsessed with window coverings. I really do believe they are an area of the home that too often gets treated as an afterthought, but when done well, they can really make a space feel like a million dollars!!!!

So when Budget Blinds approached me to partner with them on a video to share the process of installing custom window coverings in your home, I was on board. Budget Blinds is a custom window covering provider – which means they provide tailor made drapes, blinds, shades, shutters and more for your home, completely customized for you space.

Everything begins with a free in-home consultation with a local Design Consultant. Your Design Consultant brings everything to you- and I mean everything! They bring you fabric samples, professional measuring tools, and even the technology to create your own custom fabric yourself through their DesignINK™ program.

I have known Toronto Design Consultant Karen for almost my entire interior design career. We have worked on many projects together (lots that I have written about on this blog! Check out Dacia’s kitchen and bedroom here).

And what has come out of a long business relationship, is a real life friendship as well. I love that by working with a Budget Blinds Design Consultant, I get to support a fellow entrepreneur, and mom, who is following her dreams (and you know how much I care about that)!

So as I mentioned, the Design Consultant takes care of everything, from professionally measuring the space, to guiding you in the design process to installing the final product. And what I love about the Budget Blinds approach is that they really care. They work with you to either match what is in your current home, or launch you into an entirely different design scheme, and provide you options to match your unique needs and budget.

In my home, we installed gorgeous sheer curtains using the DesignINK™ program. This program kind of blew my mind. When I was working with interior design clients, I would spend hours in fabric showrooms finding the perfect scheme for my clients- and this would take a lot of time! So what I think is so unique about DesignINK™, is that you get to play designer and create your own custom fabric from the comfort of your own home. Through their portable technology, your Design Consultant can guide you through hundreds of prints- from organic, to geometric, to traditional, to contemporary, and then you can customize the colour to basically whatever you want! We were able to match the exact pink in my drapes to the door colour in my dining room! Once you are satisfied with your design, your custom print is sent to be tested on the fabric of your choice, and you receive the options in the mail for approval! Check out what the process looked like here.

Pretty cool, right? 

So here is what the spaces looked like before:

And here is what they looked like after!

I am so thrilled with how everything turned out. I wanted something playful to match the personality of my family. Pink was a bold choice, but we ensured that the hue was saturated enough that it wouldn’t feel too juvenile. 

At Karen’s suggestion, we also created custom pillows to match the window coverings! And I love the custom touch this creates. This is the simplest way in my opinion to add a designer touch to a space – the repetition of colour and pattern creates a cohesive approach in the space and is a way of adding a custom element without breaking the bank! 

I think that whatever your budget, or whatever the space, or however old your kids are, or whatever your stage is in life, everyone can enjoy a beautiful home – and window coverings are a big part of that! 

 To watch the entire transformation in my home, click play below.

And to learn how to work with a Budget Blinds Design Consultant (available throughout the USA and Canada!) click here

Special thanks to Budget Blinds for sponsoring this blog post!

HOW TO MAKE THE MOST OUT OF YOUR TIME IN YOUR CAR

HOW TO MAKE THE MOST OUT OF YOUR TIME IN YOUR CAR

One of the most commonly asked questions I get about having 7 kids is what kind of a car do you drive?!?

When we were looking for a car, I wanted something with all the bells and whistles- a car that was modern enough to handle my active family’s lifestyle, but still had all the luxuries like heated and cooling seats, a heated steering wheel, safety cameras everywhere, and a gorgeous digital display- and I found this all in the Hyundai Palisade.

When you think about how much time a mom spends in her car, it makes a huge difference when it is a space that feels luxurious, and a space that feels like an extension of home, in a way. What if we could think of our car like a place to foster connection, as opposed to just a place we shuttled people around?

We recently took this car for a spin and it inspired me think about ways we can make the most out of time in the car as a family- I hope it inspires you to foster great connections with your loved ones on the go.

1. HAVE INTENTIONAL CONVERSATIONS WITH YOUR KIDS IN THE CAR

Growing up, the car was where I had great chats with my dad about life (my mom did not drive). It was focused time, and I loved it. I try to use the times we drive to ask my kids questions, learn more about their interests, and generally just continue to get to know their personalities on a deeper level. With 7 kids ages 10 and under, I have personalities of all kinds! I like to keep the loud ones at the back, lol.

Speaking of loud, the Hyundai Palisade comes equipped with a in-vehicle intercom system (how cool is that?!), which allows me to chat with my kids in the third row without having to yell!

2. LISTEN TO AUDIOBOOKS ON LONGER DRIVES

I am a huge podcast and audiobook listener when I am driving alone, but more recently, we have been listening to classic children’s books like The Wizard of Oz, Peter Pan and the entire Beverly Cleary collection (I have so much nostalgia listening to the Ramona series). Not only are they great for kids of all ages, I find they spark my imagination too! And if you’ve been following me for a while, you know I am all for what happens in your brain when you listen to stories vs. watching videos- synapsis are fired up left right centre and the brain works to create visuals of what is being read aloud. It’s so good for parents and kids alike!

Now in my family, there is inevitably always a sleeping baby somewhere in the car! This car comes equipped with rear seat Quiet Mode, so that the rear speakers get muted when audiobooks are on the go to keep things extra quiet for sleeping babies.

3. DO DATE NIGHT IN THE CAR (EVEN IF YOU DON’T HAVE A BABYSITTER)

If you watch any of my videos you know how passionate I am about a weekly date night- it’s a non negotiable for me. We arrange childcare, we get out of the house, and we connect as a couple- so important to keep a marriage strong and healthy!

And I get asked all the time, what do you do if you can’t afford to eat out, or you don’t have childcare?

What about date night in the car? It literally could look as simple as this: change your kids into their pjs, grab your favourite beverage, drive around until they fall asleep, and then park somewhere relaxing and watch something on your personal device, or simply enjoy a relaxed conversation with no one interrupting you.

Plus, the Hyundai Palisade has heated and ventilated front seats to make your date night in the car even more luxurious.

4. WORK ON PROJECTS USING DICTATION

An interesting tidbit about my new book, The Possibility Mom: How to be a Great Mom and Pursue Your Dreams At the Same Time, is that I wrote A LOT of it in the car (sometimes with my kids WITH ME). I had to get so creative with how I wrote my book, even in the smallest 15-minute increments. And one of the ways I did this was simply by dictating parts of my book while driving into my phone as a voice memo, or literally grabbing my laptop, putting a movie on for my kids on their personal devices, and writing for the duration of the show! I wrote tons of chapters in this way!!!

With 7 USB outlets in the most strategic spots in every row, pouches for kids’ devices or other entertainment, and 14 cup holders (14!!!), this car comes equipped to keep kids happy while mom tries to get some work done!

5. INTENTIONALLY SCHEDULE ME TIME AROUND PICK-UP AND DROP OFF TIMES

I will purposefully arrive at least 15-minutes early before school pick up for intentional quiet time for myself. I pull up early, grab an ideal parking spot (if your kids’ school is small like mine you know the pain of finding parking), ensure I have a beverage to suit my mood (either a decaf flat white, or a ginormous water with ice and lemon), and I will read a book, listen to a motivating podcast or radio show (the Limited version of the Palisade comes equipped with Sirius XM and there is no shortage of content on there to entertain and inspire!), or even TAPE A NAP BEFORE THE KIDS COME IN!!!

When time is limited, us busy moms sometimes have to get creative with self care- and honestly, arriving just a few minutes early, and feeling peaceful before receiving the kids, makes a massive, massive difference on my mood for the remainder of the afternoon and evening.

For more on how this SUV is the ultimate family vehicle for active families who need a vehicle that does it all, click here. 

Special thank to Hyundai Canada for partnering with me on this post! I don’t have time to use products that do not enhance my family’s life, so know I am always looking to share products that will enhance your family’s life too. 

Photos by Lucian Vasille